EXP Bar wont save/stay saved

[morgrim]

command bar buttons :
will never open on tab #4 on login
the Nav pages buttons on the left side of the bar return to default when:
camp to another toon, always; when zoning, sometimes

XP bar width re-sets to default almost every time

Custom Option presets are non clickable
Tithe alert is disabled - but wont stay that way

Have tried several save and load options with the game UI options to no avail

any advice ?