Threat window dissapears after relog

[kinglancerin]

Ok if i go into the drums ui menu after logging in i have to click show threat meter then it shows up , after logging onto a new toon or leaving game and relogging it isnt there again ! if i click show threat meter it appears back in the place i put it for each character but then dissapears each time i log or change toons and once again i have to open the menu and manualy click the show threat .. is that normal? also i have it locked ect.. thanks once again!
Or am i being lazy

One last thing im wondering if i can add a command to my cast buttons that allows my pet to attack when casting a heal on the tank ?
Would i add that command after the spell info or before it ?
and no slashes from what i understand. as in,

pet attack ( instead of )
/pet attack