Help with raid buttons

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I'm a total newb when it comes to xml files. I need help adding some stuff to the dirge quickraid buttons. Where would the raidsay Parent.Target and tell Parent.Target would go on the xml?

<Page Name="Dirge">
<Data Name="Button1" Macro="SpellForMyLevel=&quot;Elegy at Death&apos;s Door&quot;
useabilityonplayer Parent.Target SpellForMyLevel" Tooltip="(44) Elegy at Death&apos;s Door"/>
<Data Name="Button2" Macro="SpellForMyLevel='Elegy of Awakening'
useabilityonplayer Parent.Target SpellForMyLevel" Tooltip="(58) Elegy of Awakening"/>
<Data Name="Button3" Macro="SpellForMyLevel='Speech of Sacrifice'
COND=(Parent.Parent.Parent.Parent.Custom.ProfitUI_QuickRaidButtons.ActualLevel.T ext < 78)
SpellForMyLevel=COND ? 'Oration of Sacrifice' : SpellForMyLevel
useabilityonplayer Parent.Target SpellForMyLevel" Tooltip="(65) Oration of Sacrifice
(78) Speech of Sacrifice"/>
<Data Name="Button4" Macro="SpellForMyLevel='Gravitas'
useabilityonplayer Parent.Target SpellForMyLevel" Tooltip="(80) Gravitas"/>
<Data Name="Button5" Macro="tell Parent.Target Heart&apos;/&apos;Shard please" Tooltip="Heart/Shard request"/>
</Page>

Any help is appreciated. I like to add a raidsay for the single and group rezzes and speech of sacrifice. Then I like to add a tell to the target of the Gravitas cast. Thanks.