Yep funny and embarassing
still when you consider the following I had no reason to suspect this.
1. I have no-one listed on ignore and dont use the feature.
2. The problem started after I was kicked from a group zoning (not by the group either as i was group leader).
3. Several other text bugs were introduced at that time that i had to restart to remove.
4. I know I didnt add this as I was fine before zoning and not after...
Still it all works now so I will just accept the embarrasment and be happy I can hear myself again.